Decision reached!

 Alhamdulillah, I am no longer in a state of indecision; the annoying habitual Gemini state. I have controlled the evil twin, the ying from the yang. I now know what to do. My istikharah yielded a VERY CERTAIN result. And I am no longer in doubt as to what is the best course of action for me.

Prior to the istikharah, I have actually listed all the pros and cons of working here as opposed to working back in Malaysia. And I know exactly what I SHOULD choose base on that list. And my heart too was inclined towards following the conclusion from the list, but knowing me, I could NOT commit to a decision. Everytime I wanted to say “Yup, this is it! I am doing what’s best based on a very logical conlusion from the list!”, my heart would be assailed with bouts of doubts. Temptation from the other side of the fence beckoned; and I find their seductive wiles irresistable. So, I paused and deliberate longer.

When I looked at the list again, the logic in me spurred me on to decide now, and put a stop to this consistent state of indecision. The logic in me said “You KNOW what you should do. You say you are logical, determined, brave and courageous…what’s stopping you? Or maybe your words are just without value?”

When I decided to do istikharah, I told myself that whatever decision I might get,I would follow it. And then pray for my heart to stay steadfast.  Jangan berbolak-balik lagi.

When I first did my istikharah, I was not sure what I felt. There was no overt signs or indications of what I should choose. So again, I could not commit to a decision because the signs were not all that clear.

My second istikharah was done with a bit of improvisation last night. I took two pieces of paper and wrote on them a choice each; going back or staying here. I folded the papers neatly and put them in a box. That night, I prayed the istikharah prayer, and slept soundly. When I woke up in time for Subuh, I prayed as usual and ask Allah to help me pick the BEST decision. 

I put my hand inside the box; toying with the two papers; pushing them here and there. And at last, I grabbed one piece. THE PIECE that would make all the difference.

I opened it.

And I smiled. (I knew it!!)

Now, I can commit. NOW, I know that my heart has been right all along. I guess, I had known what to do but all I need was the push. And Allah has given it to me.

Now that I’ve been given the certainty that I covet, whatever happens I will be content to face it. There will be no regrets.

Well, knowing me, maybe I would grunt and complain when things get too hard. But deep inside, I would have known that this decision is the best for me. And I would be motivated to continue along this path that I have chosen. It would make all the difference.

P/S: I would like to express my heartfelt thanks to a friend who had given me the idea for my second istikharah. It’s the certainty that I covet, and I got exactly what I wish. No biased!

I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a yellow wood, and I —
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.

7 thoughts on “Decision reached!

  1. rimau

    And I smiled. (I knew it!!)

    u knew it already???? how that could be right?hehe

    what on earth was going on to put u in that state?kata dulu brapi2 xnak keja oversea?hm..(thinking2)

    anyhow..nampaknya episode kali ni dah selesai.TAMMAT.


  2. afizaazmee

    My Goodness. You are still alive! I have long ago consigned you to the trashbin of my mind.

    But well, since ur here, I hope you behave. I approved your comments because you are currently amusing and laughable and I’m bored. Once you’ve crossed the line, you’re out, bro.


  3. afizaazmee

    That’s the suspense for my blog readers. I am not telling. I’ll just do it coz… action speaks louder than words anyway.


  4. rimau

    haha..suspens nyaaaaaaa
    tgok ayat2 perenggan terakhir tu
    clues ke arah balik tu,xde suspen2nya
    lain la kalau dia ni berpuitis2 (minta simpang)
    wani ape kabar? lama xaktif..bukak kedai ke ape


  5. i know the answer! suspens la sangat kan!

    i know u would do that. hehe.

    congrates kak fiza! i’ll be joining u like years ahead hopefully! iA.

    and u know what, i read from someone’s blog this morning, he said, by 2012, government would NOT guaranteed fresh doc graduates to do houseman in malaysia. by emans, some have to WAIT and wil be jobless for some time.

    they said the had enough doctors already. wadehak betol ke? coz 2000 graduated each year. and this year predicted to be 3100. aiyak.

    and so, those who graduated from overseas should take special exam to do houseman in malaysia. hmm…

    wadehak. i hope not. i hope things changed. well, thats prediction je kan.

    so, u should be grateful that ure not going to menganggur ocz U WILL BE A DOCTOR NEXT YEAR! ameennn…!!!

    p/s: medicine is no longer a secure profession for future prospect anymore. why la on earth people love to be a doctor? being pessimist, im sure its becoz of reputation! LOL

    another p/s: sorry im writing a blog in ur blog instead of comments. HAHA!


  6. afizaazmee

    Hmmm…it seems like all over the world there’s been surplus of doctors.

    Very scary, eh.

    But it’s ok…you can always go rural. I am sure sabah n sarawak still need a lot of doctors. We can always apply to work in DUBAI!! Very good pay over there.

    Thanks for the doa. I really hope this year would go smoothly and I can enter the adult world of working my ass off next year. Heh!

    Don’t worry about long comments, Peoz…we of the expressive and enthusiastic species do understand each other. 😉


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